Frequently Asked Questions

These guides provide general best practices and processes that apply across most situations in the UK. Where legal requirements vary by country or circumstance, I clearly note when you should consult local professionals for personalised advice.

Absolutely. These guides are written in clear, plain language—no jargon, no legal speak. They're designed so that any family member, at any stage, can follow the steps with confidence.

You can jump in wherever you are. Each guide is organised by topic, so whether you're on day one or month six, you can go straight to the section that helps you right now. 

Yes. Many families are coordinating tasks together, and sharing the same roadmap helps everyone stay aligned and reduces confusion during an already difficult time.

These guides don't replace the role of attorneys, financial advisors, or grief counsellors. Instead, they help you understand when you might need those professionals, what they do, and what questions to ask.

If the death was expected, contact the GP or the out-of-hours medical service so they can verify it. If it was unexpected, call 999. After verification, you can take your time before contacting a funeral director.

In the UK, a death must usually be registered within 5 days (8 in Scotland). When you register, you'll receive the documents needed for the funeral and for handling the estate. 

A close relative is preferred, but someone present at the death, the person arranging the funeral, or a hospital administrator can also register if necessary.

No. You can arrange the funeral yourself if you feel comfortable. Many families do choose a funeral director for support during an emotional time.

Probate is the legal process that gives someone authority to manage an estate. Not all estates need probate—banks and institutions will tell you what's required based on the assets involved.

Most probate processes take 6–12 months, depending on the estate's complexity and whether property needs to be sold.

IHT is a tax on the estate of someone who has died. Many estates don't pay it, depending on their value and the available allowances. .

Not always. Many people manage straightforward estates themselves. A solicitor may be advisable for complex estates, disputes, or high-value assets.

These guides provide general best practices and processes that apply across most situations in the UK. Where legal requirements vary by country or circumstance, I clearly note when you should consult local professionals for personalised advice.

Absolutely. These guides are written in clear, plain language—no jargon, no legal speak. They're designed so that any family member, at any stage, can follow the steps with confidence.

You can jump in wherever you are. Each guide is organised by topic, so whether you're on day one or month six, you can go straight to the section that helps you right now. 

Yes. Many families are coordinating tasks together, and sharing the same roadmap helps everyone stay aligned and reduces confusion during an already difficult time.

These guides don't replace the role of attorneys, financial advisors, or grief counsellors. Instead, they help you understand when you might need those professionals, what they do, and what questions to ask.

If the death was expected, contact the GP or the out-of-hours medical service so they can verify it. If it was unexpected, call 999. After verification, you can take your time before contacting a funeral director.

In the UK, a death must usually be registered within 5 days (8 in Scotland). When you register, you'll receive the documents needed for the funeral and for handling the estate. 

A close relative is preferred, but someone present at the death, the person arranging the funeral, or a hospital administrator can also register if necessary.

No. You can arrange the funeral yourself if you feel comfortable. Many families do choose a funeral director for support during an emotional time.

Probate is the legal process that gives someone authority to manage an estate. Not all estates need probate—banks and institutions will tell you what's required based on the assets involved.

Most probate processes take 6–12 months, depending on the estate's complexity and whether property needs to be sold.

IHT is a tax on the estate of someone who has died. Many estates don't pay it, depending on their value and the available allowances. .

Not always. Many people manage straightforward estates themselves. A solicitor may be advisable for complex estates, disputes, or high-value assets.